When our boys were little they treasured our story times.
Especially after dinner, when they were bathed, now in their pyjamas, we’d gather together on our living room couch. The boys squeezing in tight alongside us, snuggling in close, so everyone could follow along and see the pictures.
Our boys delighted in a reading a wide variety of stories, always eager to discover how a story was going to unfold.
Some of their favourite stories were drawn from the Choose Your Own Adventure novels. These novels require the reader to periodically make decisions about how the main character will respond to a situation. Each choice directs the reader to a different page somewhere throughout the book.
The reader’s decisions determine the plot and ending of the story.
Our boys enjoyed the interactive nature of these novels, where their decisions were responsible for creating a range of story lines and multiple-endings.
At each crossroad there was the possibility for lively discussions about what might be the best decision. Junctures where we wrestled with what we thought the protagonist should do. These were the moments where the protagonist was faced with choices like whether they should go into the cave or continue to hike up the mountain. Or whether they should go home to safety or head out on an adventure with their friends.
There were times when we did not like how our decisions influenced the storyline. Where we would then try to wind our way back to the page where we had made a particular choice. Hoping to return to the point where we could replace an original decision with a different, better choice.
But because of the way these novels are structured, where each choice directs you to a particular page, the reader is moved backwards and forwards throughout the novel. This makes it almost impossible to backtrack and find the specific page, and crossroad, where a choice was made.
In the end, we would just have to read on. Accepting the decisions we had made, following the ensuing storyline our choices had created.
But becoming more resolved to make better decisions as we forged ahead.
As we read these novels, I often thought about how they reflected real life.
How throughout our lives we will face many minor and major crossroads, where each crossroad calls us to make a choice.
Crossroads where we must decide to go in one direction. Or another.
Where these choices, both individually and collectively, exert tremendous power and influence on how our life stories will unfold.
Where we seldom have the luxury of returning to a crossroad, of remaking a choice, of changing our past.
Life simply marches forward.
So we too must live in our moments, glancing ahead, while we continue to walk.
Learning from our past choices. So we make better, more life-affirming choices in the future.
Leaning into God’s amazing grace.
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Faith Filled FeathersJune 2, 2018 2:07 am
Hi, I just discovered your blog while participating in the five minute friday linkup. I really loved how you talked about God’s grace and how He helps us move forward. I look forward to reading more from you in the future 🙂
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 2, 2018 2:46 am
Thanks for stopping by The Stones Call! Welcome! I look forward to having continued contact as we share our blog posts.
YvonneJune 2, 2018 2:27 am
Loved the way you used the story throughout. It is so easy to waste our time looking over our decision instead of always looking forward and looking up. Thanks
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 2, 2018 2:46 am
Yvonne, thank you for your encouraging words. I really appreciate you stopping by The Stones Call.
JennJune 2, 2018 2:01 pm
This is cool!
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 2, 2018 2:34 pm
Thanks Jenn!
BrookeJune 2, 2018 4:16 pm
I love thosed books as a kid! If only making a mistake was as easy as starting over from the point you made the bad choice.
But we can learn from our mistakes, as you said. Must really.
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 2, 2018 4:52 pm
Brooke, I totally agree that if only we could just erase our poor choices and mistakes and start over! But the key really is to just learn from our mistakes and use the knowledge to grow and mature. Thanks for stopping by The Stones Call!
ClaudioJune 2, 2018 11:25 pm
I always looked forward to reading with our sons. I remember the choose your own adventure books and the interesting decisions we had to make on which way to proceed in the book. Looking back, I did not think that these books would help the boys work through choices and decisions. I guess it was good practice. Great post. Thanks for sharing it.
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 2, 2018 11:30 pm
Thanks for you comments and for visiting The Stones Call. I think that many times we can do activities with our children and not realize the impact they may have on helping them process the world around them or to help them learn new skills. I suppose it depends on how we work with the readings, experiences, activities to help us as parents guide and teach our children to understand or frame ways of looking at things.
CateJune 5, 2018 2:45 am
Those books sound awesome and I’m going to look into them for my kiddos. My toddler already loves reading and I want to keep it that way!
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 5, 2018 2:58 am
Hi Cate! They are really good chapter books for early to middle elementary school years (6-10ish years old)- because they can be enjoyed as a book parents can read to their children or depending on their reading ability they can read the books themselves. I think the books can be used as a teaching tool and springboard for some great discussion around choices- how to make them, what makes one choice better than another, how choices influence thee path our lives, etc. I am so glad you are reading to your toddler! Your enthusiasm about reading will encourage a love a reading!
VeronikaJune 5, 2018 2:55 am
Sound like some very uplifting materials ❤️
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 5, 2018 3:17 am
Thanks for visiting The Stones Call Veronica. To clarify, I am not suggesting that the novels are beautifully written or even particularly original. Rather, for me their interest or value stemmed primarily from how they stimulated great dialogue about how we make choices, what makes a good choice, how choices influence our lives etc.
AilieJune 5, 2018 4:39 am
I didnt know about these books. Id like to go find them as my boys love story time too.
I like how you share the books you read quite accurately reflect life and the effects our choices have. Thank you for sharing
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 5, 2018 5:01 am
Allie, thanks for your comments and encouragement. I hope your boys enjoy them too@
Stephanie ThompsonJune 7, 2018 1:33 am
Annie, what a great analogy to our life stories. “Learning from our past choices. So we make better, more life-affirming choices in the future. Leaning into God’s amazing grace.”
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 7, 2018 2:23 pm
Stephanie, thanks for stopping by The Stones Call and for commenting. Thank heavens for God’s amazing grace as we make choices and write our stories!
ShootingStarsMagJune 7, 2018 1:50 pm
I like the idea behind choose your own adventure stories – there are even a couple adult versions out there! They definitely mirror life in the idea that you make a decision and then just have to go with it, regardless of what happens.
-Lauren
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 7, 2018 2:29 pm
Hi Lauren! I did not realize that there were also adult versions of these novels. Yes, once we make a choice we do have to go with it, to some degree at least. We of course can re-do parts of choices or apologize and repent for poor choices. But seldom can we go back to the exact point where the decision was made, and have a complete do-over. So as we make choices and write our own stories we must consider carefully the choices we make, while recognizing that we cannot always be certain how a decision will eventually turn out. Thank heavens we can walk in God’s abundant grace!
JordanJune 7, 2018 8:27 pm
Oh, so good! I remember these books and what a perfect description of how similar they are to our lives. Thank you for sharing!
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 7, 2018 8:59 pm
Hi Jordan! I am glad you recognized these novels and also see how they relate to our lives. They can be a great teaching tool with our children!
ColleenJune 8, 2018 1:37 pm
Wow! What a great way to teach not only kids, but adults, the power of our choices! Thanks for the read.
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 8, 2018 2:07 pm
Colleen, for sure, there is a power in every choice we make, whether it is a small or big choice. In fact, as a registered clinical counsellor I so often worked with people who really struggled to see why things had ended up as they had, and after doing some work, they often found it was small choices they had made that added up over time which had created the problem. Small steps off the healthy, good, affirming, narrow path that eventually broaden the path and had them walking far away from where they originally started and intended to go. So these books can be great teaching tools around the power of our choices, how to make good choices, how we can rectify poor choices etc. Thanks for stopping by The Stones Call! Blessings!
AmandaJune 8, 2018 2:37 pm
I’ve never heard of Choose Your Own Adventure books but they sound amazing! And I love the concepts you discussed that they teach!!!!! I’m going to have to find some for our home.
Anne Mackie-MorelliJune 8, 2018 3:04 pm
Hi Amanda! The interesting or valuable aspect to these novels is not that are beautifully crated or original novels, but rather lies in their ability to be interactive. Because they make the reader stop and think and make a choice as they read the story, it creates the great opportunity or discussion and teaching around how to make good choices, what makes a good choice etc. I hope you find their value in this regard as valuable as I did with my three little fellows! Thanks for commenting. Blessings!